Thank you, we are doing somewhat better now. She didn't eat much for a few days and yesterday her appetite came back. We are having a lot more good moments than challenging ones. She just gets frustrated, and it's totally understandable given what she's been through, and we are working on signing and using her words so we can figure out what she needs. My older girls are in her face too much, wanting to pick her up and stuff and we're working on them respecting her boundaries.
The biggest issue now is teaching her how to love on the cats. She LOVES the cats. She wants to squeeze them and hug them and lay on them and she's quicker than a wink when she sees one and I'm busy!
Thank you for the support.