Totally pisses me off too! I have girls, and people already make comments about "drama" and "wait until they're teenagers, then you won't like them so much!" (wtf, I get along great with teenagers, they seem to behave how they're treated and I can see why they're a nightmare for people who treat them like crap just because of their age!) and "oh, I'd never want girls! Too much trouble."
Now in addition, I'm getting, "you're crazy if you risk having another girl" and "I sure hope you get a little boy, life's just not complete without a widdle maaannnn." (barf).
I love boys, don't get me wrong, I haven't a thing against them and would love to have a son some day, but I wanted at least 2 girls from the start.
No one needs both genders or one of each by default! I wish people would realise that. Some people feel they need to have both genders or a boy after a few girls, or visa versa. Others, like me, don't. I don't think I should be subjected to a harangue every time someone comments on my family about how apparently horrible having girls is and how horrible more would be. I don't find it horrible in the least!
Edited by Adia - 11/10/11 at 1:43am