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post #161 of 373
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Yeah, belly wrapping isn't weird in some other cultures but that doesn't mean it's good for you. There are lot of things that other cultures do that aren't really healthy or good for the body. KWIM?

Those Tauts things are expensive! I was reading about using a wrap like a rebozo to wrap the belly. I have a wrap. I wonder if I could just do that. I guess that would be more of a pain and certainly more bulky because it's so long that I'd have to wrap it around my body several times to make it tight enough. Or else, I'd have a long tie hanging down. Hm...IDK. I don't want to spend a lot of money on yet one more thing. I don't remember ever feeling like my belly was too saggy or big after birth.
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I honestly just felt deflated after DS was born. I didn't have a tight stomach to start with, so I guess it didn't make much difference. Now, if I had super flat abs, wrapping might help in that case. Unless you are wrapped so tightly as to cut of circulation to some bits, I don't know that it would cause harm.

 

Also think that it might be contraindicated in the event of a c-section, but that may depend on how you are wrapped.

 

DS was in his toddler bed again last night and didn't fall out! and slept there until about 5 a.m. so that is great! It didn't take very long to get him to sleep either. I am still starting on the floor and moving him, but hey, at least he is falling asleep in his room.

post #163 of 373
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Katrina ~ That's great about your ds sleeping in his bed.

The upstairs AC is fixed. I was admonished for not replacing the filters. I've asked my neighbor if he'll put he'll switch them out once I get new ones.

I'm planning to take the kids to a park today to meet some other homeschoolers. Hopefully, someone else will show up. It's a scheduled park day for this one homeschool group but I get the impression a lot of them don't like to go in the summer because it's so hot. It's 20 degrees cooler today, though.
post #164 of 373
Turning on my out of office message was pretty surreal this afternoon. I have to keep reminding myself that this time next week I will have a baby to take care of! Eeeeek!
post #165 of 373
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Turning on my out of office message was pretty surreal this afternoon. I have to keep reminding myself that this time next week I will have a baby to take care of! Eeeeek!

Hehe! joy.gif
post #166 of 373
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Turning on my out of office message was pretty surreal this afternoon. I have to keep reminding myself that this time next week I will have a baby to take care of! Eeeeek!


Oh how fun!!!  That's such a trippy thought, isn't it!?!  So exciting!!  I can't wait to see pictures.  You MUST post pictures!!!

 

I was MIA yesterday, huh?  I'm SO SICKKK.  MW, I now officially feel the pain you've been going through.  I'm pretty sure I have a sinus infection.  The pain in my right cheek and congestion on the right side of my face is INSANE.  Also, when I did get something out of my nose, it was yellow.  greensad.gif  I woke up in the middle of the night with BLINDING pain in my right ear, so I got up and took a decongestant.  Waited 40 min for it to kick in, and nothing.  So, I started googling how to get rid of ear congestion.  Found a MIRACLE.  Basically you do the saline rinse in your nose, but as soon as it starts to flow, pinch your nose shut.  Throw your head back, and lean to the side of the ear that's blocked.  Sit for a minute.  Flip your head the other way.  Then BLOW.  OMG.  So much yellow gross snot came out!  I did it for like 20 min at 2 am.  So much came out and i was finally able to hear and the pain was so much less.  I woke up again at 6 and of course it was all blocked up again, so I hopped in a hot shower and did it all again.  Not as much came out but now my ear is crackly and I'm not in anywhere near as much pain.  I'm going to do all I can to avoid abx.  As of right now everything I'm blowing out is clear but I expect that to change as it backs up again.

 

What a pain in my ass.

 

All I can say is, after this, the universe owes me!!  I better get my homebirth and this baby better not have galactosemia!!!  Cuss.gif

 

I went and bought all my HB supplies yesterday and got a great deal on the towels at Walmart.  I hate buying new towels just to ruin then, and Walmart had white ones for $2.97 each.  The washcloths were an 18 pack for $4!!  Score.  I got white so I can attempt to bleach them.  They're crappy towels so we wouldn't use them for daily use if I do get the stains out but if I can get them clean enough they could be back up towels or something.  I also bought the perfect pjs for postpartum and a new robe and slippers.  Totally treated myself.  I can't wait to push this baby out and then get cleaned up and slip into my totally soft and cute new jammies, robe and slippers! 

post #167 of 373
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Ugh, Carrie. It does sound exactly what I had. I'm not sure if my infection is gone. I filled the 2nd abx script but haven't taken it. I'm too scared of getting a YI. I'm not sure if I have one or not. I've been using yogurt on a tampon but I haven't been very good at following the twice a day for 3 days protocol. I also took a couple of apple cider vinegar baths. I have this very mildly itchy feeling and what feel like some fissures down there. Not sure if that's from a YI or maybe the ACV was a bit too acidic for me. I'm going to wait a couple of days and see if anything changes.

Is a YI dangerous during labor and birth? I didn't talk to my MW about it on Thursday because I thought it was all cleared up.

I got those same towels and washcloths from Walmart. Don't tell my dh I've been shopping there. He'll never let me live it down. I hate going there but right now it's so much easier because I can do a lot of one-stop shopping. I'm just not up for going to 3 different places. I thought the same thing, too, about the white. I can bleach them and use them as backups for whatever. My boys are always coming home wet and muddy so they'd be perfect for that sort of thing.

I need some new jammies. I want some nursing ones so I don't have to fiddle with trying to pull a t-shirt up all the time but I can't find anything I like. Why do they only make jammies with no-sleeve or short-sleeved tops and long pants or nightgowns with thin straps? I need it the other way around, long sleeves to keep my arms warm and just short because my legs get hot under the covers. I do have one set of nursing jammies but I didn't use them much. It was too much trouble fiddling with the nursing openings and the sleep bra with nursing pads in them. If I didn't wear the bra with the pads, though, I woke up in a puddle in the middle of the night.
post #168 of 373
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I need some new jammies. I want some nursing ones so I don't have to fiddle with trying to pull a t-shirt up all the time but I can't find anything I like. Why do they only make jammies with no-sleeve or short-sleeved tops and long pants or nightgowns with thin straps? I need it the other way around, long sleeves to keep my arms warm and just short because my legs get hot under the covers. I do have one set of nursing jammies but I didn't use them much. It was too much trouble fiddling with the nursing openings and the sleep bra with nursing pads in them. If I didn't wear the bra with the pads, though, I woke up in a puddle in the middle of the night.


Re: YI - I don't think it's dangerous but I'd worry about thrush.  Thrush is more of a PITA than something to really worry about, but bf'ing hurts so much in the beginning I don't want to frak it up with yeast, you know?

 

I am the SAME WAY with jammies!!  I want long sleeves and shorts.  Especially with cosleeping, I use only a light sheet and have my arms out of the blankets.  I'm always chilly.  When I don't have a baby in the bed I'm up to my neck in comforter!  The jammies I bought are shorts and a tank, but I bought the robe as well to cover my arms.  And I can always throw a lightweight long sleeved shirt on top. 

 

Oh, I can't wait to be postpartum.  I'm so over this pg!! 

 

 

post #169 of 373
It's Ava's birthday! Labor started around 7 PM last night. Got to the hospital around midnight and my doctor decided to have me stay. Will be heading to surgery in about 1 1/2 hours. Will update as soon as I can once I'm out of recovery.
post #170 of 373

joy.gifYay, Annie!  How wonderful that your labor started on it's own!  I hope all goes well and I can't wait to see pics!!!  joy.gif

post #171 of 373
Omg how exciting!!! I can't wait for your update!!! Good luck, mama!!
post #172 of 373
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OMG, Annie! Was not expecting this when I logged on this morning. joy.gif I'm so excited for you. Can't wait to see pics.
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While we all wait for pics of Ava, I'll bitch that I finally gave in and got abx and started them this morning.  FML.  I'm just going to double up my probotics (will probably need another bottle) and add it to my prayer list that I don't get a YI.  If I do, I'll deal with it.  Now 8/16 is looking like a fine EDD!  Stay put baby until I'm well!  I definitely can't labor like this.  My head is about to explode.  I have a full blown sinus infection AND ear infection, which explains the excruciating pain in my ear.

 

MW - how are you feeling?  Did you start the new abx at all?  I forget, I've been out of the loop the past few days.

post #174 of 373

YAY Annie!!!  7/17 makes a very nice Birthday!  And now you don't have to go back to work!

 

 

I am not looking forward to all the complications with sicknesses and infections that seem to run rampant in later pregnancy. I am in general a very very healthy person. Whether by choice or laziness, my mom was one of those who didn't really take us to the doctor unless it was for a routine checkup, and I was terrified of needles so I only got the "needed" vaccs. Same kind of thing with medication-- both gravol and buckleys make me instantly sick, and those were her go-to medications, so generally unless I was passed out on the floor, I spent my childhood just pushing through sicknesses and letting my body heal itself. My high school I got to the point where I was really only sick once every few years, and that seems to have stuck since then.   But with a changing immune system I'm assuming I'll probably get hit just like you all are. Boo erms! I've never even been on antibiotics or anything prescription really, that wasn't to clear up my face, or a sleeping pill. 

 

SIL dropped off 6 more boxes of pure girly pink 18M + baby clothes today. She said most of it is around 2-3 and up... and I had told her that if she wanted to hold onto it until next weekend, then I would look through it, but I didn't want it before then, because we don't even know if we're having a girl! Then I woke up this morning and her husband had dropped them off. So I guess I'll go through them and see if there's anything I like enough to store, but we're getting to the point where it's all too old age-wise, for it to make it worth storing it for the next 3 years (or closer to 6-8 if this one is a boy...). 

post #175 of 373
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MW - how are you feeling?  Did you start the new abx at all?

I haven't started them yet. I'm sort of teetering on the edge between feeling ok and being sick. I know I'm cutting it very close but I don't want to take abx and feel sick while taking it and get a worse YI.

Ya know what I just realized? Annie went into labor the day before her 40w edd based on her chart. I still had 7/21 in my head but that's the date the OB gave. 7/18 was the date based on her chart, right? How cool is that?

I can't remember. Does anyone know how close everyone else who has given birth was to her 40w chart edd?

Katrina ~ I've been meaning to answer your question about downward dog. I don't know if it would work the same as hanging upside off the side of the couch or a chair. I couldn't do either while pg. It made me feel sick. I want to say that I read somewhere that downward dog was actually not good while pg but I can't say where it came from so it may not be true. I did read just the other day that getting on your arms and knees and sticking your butt in the air might help. That might be a little more comfortable than either hanging off the edge of the couch or downward dog. Also, laying on your back and lifting your pelvis off the ground is another one. I like to do cat/cow. It feels really good, loosens up my lower back muscles, takes the weight of my belly off everything and is supposed to help baby get into whatever position is best, maybe because baby isn't being squeezed by anything, either.

So, I'm back to name issues. lol.gif I started a thread in my DDC asking for middle name suggestions to go with Dylan. I've been looking and haven't come across anything I can say I like more than Sloan but I still want options. Sea hero warrior is a little too machismo for me. I'd like a middle name that's a little more peaceful or at least not so testosterone laden.

I came across Dylan Kyle (means handsome). Kyle was on our original list of boy names from way back in 2000 when we were TTC #1 together.

Dylan Chance (means lucky or something like that) The problem with Chance is that I had a manager at restaurant I worked at in college named Chance whom I did not like. He was a sexually harrassing, wife cheating jerk.
post #176 of 373
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Ya know what I just realized? Annie went into labor the day before her 40w edd based on her chart. I still had 7/21 in my head but that's the date the OB gave. 7/18 was the date based on her chart, right? How cool is that?
So, I'm back to name issues. lol.gif I started a thread in my DDC asking for middle name suggestions to go with Dylan. I've been looking and haven't come across anything I can say I like more than Sloan but I still want options. Sea hero warrior is a little too machismo for me. I'd like a middle name that's a little more peaceful or at least not so testosterone laden.

I came across Dylan Kyle (means handsome). Kyle was on our original list of boy names from way back in 2000 when we were TTC #1 together.

Dylan Chance (means lucky or something like that) The problem with Chance is that I had a manager at restaurant I worked at in college named Chance whom I did not like. He was a sexually harrassing, wife cheating jerk.


That's pretty cool! 

 

Hmm.  Names.  I like Dylan Sloan, I like Dylan Kyle.  Not a huge fan of Dylan Chance.  Idk why, but the ring of it isn't as nice.  Hmm, peaceful names...I don't know what it means but I like Dylan Levi for some reason.  Just popped out at me.  Dylan Christopher?  Dylan Rhys (or Reese)?  Dylan Thomas?  Names are such fun.  

 

JJ - I so hear you.  Not pregnant I'm healthy as can be.  Never sick, never even a cold.  This pg alone I've had 4 colds, plus a UTI, PLUS this sinus and ear infection.  It's MISERABLE.  I've never had so many illnesses in a year before in my life!!!  It's pathetic.

 

post #177 of 373
Ava was born yesterday morning at 7:57 am. She weighed 7 lbs 5 oz and she's 19 inches long. She has a light dusting of strawberry blonde hair.

While they were finishing up my surgery, DH walked Ava to the nursery so they could weigh her. The plan was that they would meet me in recovery. However while they were there, the nurses discovered that she was having trouble w/ her pulse/ox levels. So they started trying to figure out the problem. In the she had to be transported to another hospital that has a NICU. They found out that she has Tetralogy of Fallot and will require heart surgery in a few days as well as a followup surgery in about 4-6 months. She has to stay in the NICU until her surgery. I am hoping to get discharged tomorrow morning so I can get over to her. My DH has been going back and forth between us all day.

I miss my baby and want her so bad. I'll try to post pics soon but right now I'm posting from an iTouch and I can't attach images.
post #178 of 373

Oh my goodness, Annie!  I'm sure Ava is beautiful & I pray you get to be with her soon and that her surgery goes well.  hug.gif  Have you been given access to a breast pump?  Here is a link to helpful video on hand expression:  http://newborns.stanford.edu/Breastfeeding/HandExpression.html  Hand expression combined with pumping is dramatically more effective than pumping alone.  The Stanford page also has a video on maximizing production while pumping:  http://newborns.stanford.edu/Breastfeeding/MaxProduction.html  As well as guidelines for amounts for spoon or cup feeding:  http://newborns.stanford.edu/Breastfeeding/PMGs.html#nolatch  And here's a link to find an LLL Leader near you:  http://lllvawv.org/

post #179 of 373

Images!?  Oh no, Annie!  Don't worry about pictures -- I'm so sorry to hear about your little Ava!  Be gentle with yourself, what a rollercoaster to find out she needs surgery!!  hug2.gif  She will be just fine.  Pump your milk to bring it in, cry when you need to cry, talk to whomever you can.  Soon she will be in your arms.  I'm so sorry this isn't the happy babymoon you envisioned.   Soon she will be with you.  Soon.  I'm crying for you, mama.  

 

 

That said, I'm so glad she is here, and many happy congratulations on your beautiful, perfect, sweet daughter!  We love you, Annie -- gentle hugs and love being sent to you and your family.  

post #180 of 373
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hug.gif Annie. I hope that Ava's surgery goes well and you are with her soon.
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