I just read this blog entry about how to know if a guy cares about you, and I thought it was very relevant to our recent conversations (though I'm thrilled that Butterfly is no longer asking this question about her Cucumber )
This guy actually has some pretty good info about dating and men in general, and his online video dating quiz is cool, though it gets a little over the top with the advertising.
Thank goodness i didn't use this list to assess Cucumber, because he hates PDA, would not be proud nor jealous if another guy noticed me, and doesn't ask my advice terribly often. But we had a laugh talking about how he measured up on this list.
Tomorrow is our 1 year anniversary and I bought him a fabulous gift that will blow his socks off that I even did the sleuthing required to know what the thing is and that he'd be thrilled to have it (I'm resourceful and devious!) since it relates to a passion of his that I have zero knowledge of. Meaning, I don't even know what the thing is, really, or what it does, but I know he wants it. Unfortunately, it hasn't arrived in the mail yet and I'm afraid it won't get here tomorrow and it will be belated.