DS is almost 4 months old and is intact. I know not to ever let anyone forcibly retract him, but his pediatrician gently pulled the foreskin back, not revealing the glans at all. She definitely didn't retract him, just pulled the foreskin back to the point where it stopped on it's own, and I should stress that she did it very carefully and gently. DS didn't seem to be in any pain at all. My question is, is this okay to do? Or should I tell her to not touch his little penis at all?
My second question is, what if he has a messy EBF poop and it's all over his penis? Is it okay to very gently pull the foreskin back (to the point where it stops on its own) to get all the poop cleaned off? I've been doing this, but DS had a little redness at the tip afterwards, and I wasn't sure if it's better to leave it alone or get all the poop off. I'm, of course, leaning towards getting the poop off. Ick.
Thanks in advance.