I don't really now where to start... I have a friend who has made some rather harsh comments about my son. I thought I could trust her as she can me with her kids but I'm not so shore now!
He's 5 and she lost her temper with me about him. He said he had wet himself ( while she was minding him and I was helping her round her house..) but he had not, he ran to me in tears telling me this. He was not well at the time and it is very much my fault for going there in the first place. I was able too earn I little extra as things are tight and I thought it would be o.k!
She was so angry because he laid!!! And that it made her look bad and that he would walk all over me in the future etc,etc,etc..
He's a good boy. And it really hurts.
Many people think it's a bad idea that he's a single child. We moved a couple of years ago and it's been hard finding people we can trust. What hurts the most is that I feel I have failed him somehow... He doesn't have many friends because he's not in school jet and the move did not help.
He's a happy boy. We have a lovely time.
She has kids herself.
I'm feeling lonely and sad. When we're at her place she's different to him, cooler.
I don't what him to feel this energy. When I was little a felt every tiny thing....
To me, she is trying to act normal and as though it never happened. He likes to go there ( never alone!) but I can't help but feel that he's putting up with alot of misplaced negativity.
I don't really know what to do?