I just turned 40 in June. Long story as short as possible: After an 8 week loss about 2 years ago, we decided to TTC #4, beginning in January of 2010. Over the course of 10 cycles, I had 5 chemical pregnancies. The first one started with a faint line at 10 dpo that got darker the next day and then started to fade until I started bleeding on the day AF was due. The next, I had lines at 9 and 10 dpo, then nothing, bleeding at time of AF. Next three were different than those two but they were all similar to one another: fairly good line at 11dpo, strong positive at 13 dpo (nearly as dark as the control line), bleeding two days after AF was due. I have very regular cycles, usually O’ing on CD 13, with a 15, sometimes 16 day LP. After the last CP, we decided to be happy with the kids we have and stop trying.
And now, I’m 13 dpo, many months later, and pregnant again, not planned or TTC this time. I had my suspicions starting around 9dpo, and tested positive at 10 dpo, kind of faint, but not a squinter. After all my early losses, I am prepared to lose this one, too, and I’m at peace about it. I’ll also be happy if this pregnancy sticks--maybe we finally caught a healthy egg.
First, I’m curious if anyone has had or heard of a chemical pregnancy with such solid positive tests that suddenly ends. At my age, and dh’s (42), I pretty much assume that these losses are the result of aging eggs and/or sperm, and my body having the wisdom to end a nonviable or unhealthy pregnancy. We never had any testing done and don’t intend to. I guess I’m asking for opinions/experiences/whatever?
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-- no matter how long you are pg, it's still emotionally painful to look forward with hope and excitement and then have those hopes dashed.
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