I just turned 40 in June.  Long story as short as possible:  After an 8 week loss about 2 years ago, we decided to TTC #4, beginning in January of 2010.  Over the course of 10 cycles, I had 5 chemical pregnancies.  The first one started with a faint line at 10 dpo that got darker the next day and then started to fade until I started bleeding on the day AF was due.  The next, I had lines at 9 and 10 dpo, then nothing,  bleeding at time of AF.  Next three were different than those two but they were all similar to one another:  fairly good line at 11dpo, strong positive at 13 dpo (nearly as dark as the control line), bleeding two days after AF was due.  I have very regular cycles, usually O’ing on CD 13, with a 15, sometimes 16 day LP.  After the last CP, we decided to be happy with the kids we have and stop trying. Â
And now, I’m 13 dpo, many months later, and pregnant again, not planned or TTC this time.  I had my suspicions starting around 9dpo, and tested positive at 10 dpo, kind of faint, but not a squinter.  After all my early losses, I am prepared to lose this one, too, and I’m at peace about it.  I’ll also be happy if this pregnancy sticks--maybe we finally caught a healthy egg.
First, I’m curious if anyone has had or heard of a chemical pregnancy with such solid positive tests that suddenly ends.  At my age, and dh’s (42), I pretty much assume that these losses are the result of aging eggs and/or sperm, and my body having the wisdom to end a nonviable or unhealthy pregnancy.  We never had any testing done and don’t intend to.  I guess I’m asking for opinions/experiences/whatever?
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-- no matter how long you are pg, it's still emotionally painful to look forward with hope and excitement and then have those hopes dashed.
