two babies home with me all day! 14 mothes and two monthes help!

[Bethanyvan]

For as long as i can remember i wanted to be a mom and shortly after my husband and i married i got pregnant with my baby boy landon, he was born may 2nd of last year...then 3 monthes later surprise! i got pregnant with 2nd boy tanner.... he was born may 4th of this year. I stay at home because i cant handle the thought of leaving them with anyone for longer that a couple hours. I know i must be crazy because i want to have another one...hoping for a girl :) But I would like to get the weight off first... Im home all day not enough excersise so many different issues hidden in this...HELP!!!!!

[mamaprovides]

Having babies is addictive. Something went off in me and I just...want another baby...and another baby...and I never wanted to have babies!

I don't think your crazy.

If you are looking for workout solutions...I'm not your gal.

But I don't think your crazy...well, if you are, you are in good company.

what help would you like?

[PoetryLover]

I'm due with my 2nd (biological) next month and they will be 18 months apart. I'm considering getting a membership at the YMCA, as they have childcare available. Plus, DH will be a student starting September 1st and students get a discount. PLUS, they go by your income. I'm a SAHM and don't like the idea of leaving my babies, but this will only be for an hour and I will be right in the building. Another thing I plan to do (not sure how it will work with DH's work and school schedule) is family walks. We love them!

Are there any other questions or concerns that you have? My older sister and I are 11 1/2 months apart, so we're Irish twins.  12 months isn't a big distance between the 2. I do hear that it gets easier as the children get older because they play together and entertain each other. At least, that's what I'm hoping for. We're planning a 3rd baby, too, but we'll probably wait 2-3 years.