Last year my husband and I weren't trying to start a family yet and were using protection every time (although admittedly we'd have some unprotected fun for a few minutes) but one month I had this sense that I might be pregnant. Having never experienced it before, I wasn't sure, but something was going on and it was still too early to test. I am so in tune with my body that I experience and feel everything that ever goes on. I can tell you when I'm ovulating because I feel mittelschmerz for about 3 days every month right on schedule and have 25 day cycles like clockwork. Well, that month about halfway between my ovulation and expected period date, I started having this pain and uterine feeling that I had never experienced before. It was actually kind of painful and throbbing for a good day, almost like it was contracting. It hurt to walk. But there was no blood, so it's not like people would believe me that I was feeling implantation. My boobs were hurting, I was really emotional, things were just different. So I POAS a few days before my period was due and used an EPT blue dye test with the +/- signs. Nothing showed up right away, but after the recommended time frame there was a faint plus sign. I was in shock. I took some dollar store tests as well, and those were totally negative. So I was confused and just figured it was an evap line on the one test and I wasn't pregnant. Well, my period started a few days late and was really heavy. In the midst of trying to search online for reasons why I had that odd "uterus experience" and possible positive HPT, I stumbled across a discussion on Rh- and freaked out at the thought that I might've had a really early miscarriage and I might need a shot. (I had never heard of Rh- before but knew my blood type was negative, so needless to say, it scared the hell out of me...) I called my OB/GYN's office and got in for bloodwork. They told me that my hCG levels were consistent with never having been pregnant, so they couldn't explain anything to me besides I might've had a chemical pregnancy or evap lines on the test.
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Well, come February this year and we started trying to start a family for real... got pregnant on the first try and I had THE SAME throbbing uterus pain when the egg was implanting. I am pretty sure I had a chemical pregnancy last year after all, but I didn't bother telling anyone because my friends didn't even understand in the first place how I could've experienced implantation so strongly. I still wonder if that blue dye test was still an evap line, though. No way of knowing since I believe I had been briefly pregnant, the red dye and digital HPTs were negative, and my hCG levels had been too low to determine either way. I wish I had taken a picture of that EPT. Oy!
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I know that from now on I'm only using red line and digital tests. The dollar store tests did the trick, too. I was skeptical going into using them, but they were all true positives. Only problem is that the lines didn't show up immediately and I apparently was too impatient and disappointed thinking I must not be pregnant, so I was taking one test a day and tossed each in the trash..... One last day of impatience and I was going to swear off taking anymore tests. The last test turned faintly positive, though, and I was like.... wait a minute..... had I not been waiting long enough the previous days?!?! I looked back in the trash and no joke, the tests from the previous days all showed positive....... Boy was I kicking myself. I don't care what those instructions say now. Early on, the lines didn't show up within 3 minutes. But they sure did eventually show up and here I am almost 6 months pregnant. lol. A positive digital test took all confusion out of the equation.
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The moral of my story is that nothing is as cut and dry as we grow up thinking it will be when we POAS! You have no idea how PO'd I was when I learned that evap lines actually existed and a positive test might not ACTUALLY be a positive!
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Oh, and I think this Rh- thing is something that women should be taught more about early in their childbearing years. I've been a regular blood donor, so that's the only reason I would've known my blood type and cared when I came across that discussion online and found out about RhoGAM. But most women I talked to had no idea about it! And a lot of them were even mothers! I would just hate to think that women might be having actual miscarriages out there and aren't getting medical attention for whatever reason. I was told there's only a 72-hour window to get the shot as a precaution to prevent antibodies from forming and causing future problems carrying/birthing babies. That is scary to me! But maybe I'm in the minority?