I can greatly appreciate what you (and others reading this thread) are going through...
I am certainly no expert but am happy to share my son's story...maybe it will help someone:
My son is very active - has been playing ice hockey since age 5... and baseball/lacrosse during off season.
Spring/Summer of 2011 started to notice very flat, turned-out feet in my then-10year old son. Never any pain, no sprains....just flat, splayed out feet
Brought him to doctor in the Fall- thinking he would be getting orthotics....doc sent us for MRI ...diagnosis T-C coalition in both feet (not yet ossified, no arthritis)...
Doc recommended surgery...and after exhaustive research, I agreed... the coalition was obvious..
First foot was operated on Feb 23, 2012 Post -op course of treatment: 5 weeks in a non-weight bearing cast followed by about 2 weeks in a walking boot. PT began when out of cast....
Second surgery was done June 1, 2012... same post-op plan.
We were VERY careful after surgery - very little movement (he slept on couch so he would not have to go up stairs at all for the first week, used a wheel chair so there was no chance of slipping with crutches, even used a hospital potty so he would not go all the way to the bathroom .... fortunately, we home-school, so he was able to keep up with school work right from the couch).....
We were told to expect some pain after surgery...but there was very little - my son did not take any pain med's post op (again - he really did not move much at all...but we wanted to do everything we could to avoid needing pain meds)...the only time he took the Rx motrin was before he went in to have the cast and stitches removed at 3 weeks post op..
He is now at 25 weeks since the first surgery and is doing great.... PT is just about over... still walking a bit stiffly, but no pain...he was outside playing basketball with his friend today! He will be back on the ice in about a week.
I told the doctor when this started that he had 26 weeks to fix my son's feet...and we have just about made it!
Hope this helps! Good luck!
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