WOW. Your feelings were hurt because you got fired, so you've tried to ruin this doctors life. To be fair, I'll assume that a non-medical individual (who doesn't have family or close friends in the field or related field) may not have had any idea how devestatingly awful your actions against this doctor (who you actually seem to like a bit) could be. I'm horrified that you'd like to ruin her career (not to mention everything else that can go along with that) over this NON-incident. FWIW, my DH is a pediatrician... a truely amazing one who has worked with hundreds or even thousands of non-circumcised boys and is 100% in agreement that what the doctor was attempting to do (if indeed she was only looking for that small peek) was never going to cause any harm. He has handled a LOT more little boy, medium boy, and big boy penises than all of us put together, I assure you, and would certainly be telling the truth about this. The idea of someone destroying his reputation within the office and then to professional organizations is sickening. The didn't fire you because you didn't want your son's foreskin retracted or because you spoke up about it in the office visit. They fired you because you took an incident that was a 2 out of 10 (at most) on the scale of awful and reacted as if it were an 11. They were all afraid that every interaction with you could go this way and realized that you were not going to be willing to treat them like human beings (you know, the kind who can actualy do nothing wrong but apologize for not getting the visit exactly right but then don't have their career ruined over it) and decided that they had to spare themselves the 18 years of trouble.
Please apologize. Call it new mom's overprotectiveness... tell them that you got sucked into the fervor of this issue because it is near and dear to your heart but that you don't have any intention of ruining this doctors life. They won't want to see you again as a patient, but perhaps you won't be sued. If someone had done this to my husband, we'd already have TWO lawyers... the practice's lawyer and a personal one, just in case there was a way to go after you twice. Just saying.