I really appreciate the insight. I'm working at avoiding soy but it's really challenging. I've succeeded in avoiding my normal, weekly intake of heavily soy-laden Asian food (much to my dismay!) in hopes such a large serving would make some difference. It seems that dairy is definitely an issue, too, and that's one I need to buckle down and avoid altogether, too. Unfortunately, it's seemingly even harder than soy because dairy is in all sorts of everyday food items, whereas *major* sources of soy are generally reserved for Asian food (though that's one of my all-time loves!).

I am, thus far, cutting out milk and ice cream, though I know full well that she almost certainly needs to me to avoid the beloved cheeses found in so many things. Oh, and butter. Sigh.
Her symptoms are only, as far as anyone can tell, the mucous and occult blood in her stools. The mucous will increase dramatically if I have straight milk (i..e, chocolate milk my DH made as a treat last week) or edamame (which I haven't had in quite a while on her account, but which is surely the cause of her reacting while I was on a strict dairy-free diet several months ago). She may be gassy, but she doesn't get fussy, she pretty much never spits up anymore, has no noticeable changes in sleep, etc. She had consistently stuffy nose for quite a while after birth, but that's gone away. I sometimes think she has allergy eyes, but it's hard to know.
One big problem for me in really cutting everything out is that over the last week or two (when I've been working to avoid soy, in particular), we've been in situations where we had to eat away from home pretty much daily (i.e., a VBS where dinner was served). As I know from previous attempts at elimination diets, it's nigh-on impossible to avoid foods when eating out.

I need to figure out what/where I can get DFSF foods for those times when we do need convenience, at least.
Thanks, again!