some things about my husband have continued to baffle me for a number of years.
the biggest thing that sticks out for me right now in this moment in our relationship is his inability to change how he reacts and interacts with me and his children. he is very rigid, very black and white, very selfish and lacking in empathy. he's read books, had therapy sessions (alone and with me), and we've talked and talked. but his reactions are the same. it's always all about him. it's nearly impossible for him to look at something from someone else's POV. and it's never ever his "fault" or responsibility. no matter what is happening.
it has recently occurred to me that he might be autistic. looking at the symptoms online, i'd say he has quite a number of them.
i have no idea what to do. i've ordered some books from the library, but i'm really stuck thinking about how to proceed.
anyone have any input?