I'm really in a quandry here. First of all, I'm the grandmother.
My daughter did not have a shower but people from all over gave her gifts to use for the baby.
Unfortunately, the baby only lived for 20 days.
I've searched the internet for the ettiquette on this situation and have discussed it with 2 other grandmothers who have gone through it - I would just like further opinions.
We are in Ga and there is one person in Oh who is wanting the used clothing she gave to my daughter returned to her. This is not what my daughter wants to do with the gifts given to her. As of right now, she's not sure what she wants to do.
My question is: is she under any obligation to return that used clothing, or do these things now belong to her to do with as she sees fit?
Personally, as far as I'm concerned, the lady may as well have come to the door and slapped her in the face! Needless to say, after I have received some more info into this, I will NOT be the one to handle the situation (I have a very good friend who will do this for me).