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I was scared to come check out this thread again but I'm glad it's back on track. Thank you.
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Kanna I'm glad they were able to get her out vaginally. I hear the "too big" line so often as a push to an unnecessarian. I love to see people fighting for vaginal if at all possible.
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My OB knew she was big, but at that gestational age, it's hard to tell via ultrasound exactly how big. Turns out they underestimated her weight by more than a pound. Still, I'm tall myself and as it turned out, the internal diameter of my pelvis is quite big too. It's not just a question of the size of the baby. It's also about the anatomy of the mom (and no, wide hips does not necessarily equate with a large internal diameter of the pelvis).
Actually though, I didn't have to fight my OB for it or anything. Since she was aware that I was a "med-person" too, we knew we'd go for a c-section if it became necessary...but as long as things went well, why bother?
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Thanks Starrlamia :)
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I was talking to friend today about my decellerations. I said:
They were in the 80's for, I'm not sure how long.. more than a few minutes, and not rebonding, and they hit the 60s a time or 2. Is that normal?
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and she said:
When they are right in the birth canal, yes it is normal. I learned that when I took a Holistic Midwifery course a few years back. :)
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What do you guys think of that?
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Hmmm....all the data and studies I have access to indicate otherwise. Physiologically, it doesn't make any sense either, since low heart-rate = low cardiac output = low rate of oxygen delivery to the body (most of all the brain and heart). Outside of the mom, you start ventilating the baby at a HR at lower than 100 and you start chest compressions at anything below 60.
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Before accepting what your friend learned at the Holistic Midwifery course, I'd really like a close look at the data / studies they've based that bit about decels in the birth canal being normal on.
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I just like to be prepared. I don't want to be scared and rushed over something that's normal that close to delivery. But obviously I DO want intervention asap if something's wrong.
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I completely understand the bit about not wanting to be scared and rushed. It was exactly the same for me.
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But since I've worked in hospitals and also spent my fair share of time in an OR (mostly holding hooks) and also seen a few cesareans (once translating for the mom while it was being done....the lady was from a foreign country and spoke french and I was the one with the best grasp on that particular language in the OR), I feel fairly comfortable inside of a hospital. I know all the machines, what they do and how to interprete the numbers. I speak medical lingo. So it's not even remotely as scary for me as it would be for someone else.
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It might lower your anxiety if you check out the L&D department at your hospital. The ones here offer regular tours for expectant moms. That way, if you DO end up needing a transfer (which is not THAT common, really....most homebirths are done without much fuss at home from start to end), you wouldn't be as scared, because you already know the place and got to ask questions beforehand (e.g. what their criteria for a c-section are, what kind of monitoring they have, pediatricians on call, rate of noskomial infections in the L&D department, how they handle informing the patient before procedures, etc.)
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Just a possibility of covering all your bases. 