It has been a good two years since I have posted or have been an active member. My LO is now just about 3 years old and the youngest of four so I have been busy busy.Â
So a lil about me first pregnancy early MS at 6weeks, then our beautiful son was born via hospital c-section 12 hrs of labor and a dip in heart rate uh oh emergency, then our daughter Jenna was my first VBAC in the hospital via lots of interventions, MS Feb 05 @ 9w, MS Jan 06 @ 7w, MS/ectopic @ 6-7w July 06 twins or heterotopic pregnancy (one in tube one in uterus) lost my right tube this go around as it was bursting and I was bleeding internally. I was told it might take a while to get preggers with one tube. Had a hystosalpingogram to check if there was blockage of my right tube (all clear). I never got my period after this procedure, I was preggers with our lucky lady Giana born in hospital VBAC on 7/7/07 (b-day NOT planned). Our lil lucky girl was only 7 months when I found out I was 2m preggers with #4 Carmela was born via HOME VABC or HBAC on 8/31/08 NO interventions one of the most life changing experience of my life.Â
Fast forward to Feb of this year when I O'ed sooner than I expected and was worried I could have gotten pregnant. The 2ww was horrendous I was upset, crying as using "family planning" had worked since her birth and we were "done". Once my period came I was sad that I wasn't pregnant. WHAT? sad I was wasn't preggers? clearly I was NOT done. I was nervous to talk to my husband about maybe just one more. In the beginning of our marriage 2 was all he wanted, then we negotiated and got #3 and #4 was a surprise, so I just knew he would shut down my idea immediately.....the dreaded talk...OMG, is this my husband, he really is ok and WANTS #5, doesn't want to not give me what I want???
After deciding we would wait until summer to get preggers as we were selling our home, moving, sisters wedding in June etc here we are in July, my husband and I were going to DTD when he said to me in the most sweetest voice, Is this the month Babe? I smiled and he said well lets do it then....
I obviously do not have a problem getting preggers, had some issues keeping them in the past. Praying with having 1 tube that things will go smoothly. I am most nervous about what the in-law side of the family will say...kind thought we were crazy having #4 since they are only 13 1/2 months apart....my husband says "who cares what they think, its our life, they don't pay our bills" I am so blessed to have such an amazing husband...
Now to the TTC #5, I have always been pretty good about charting CM. I put an app on my phone back in feb much easier to keep track off. I average a 27 day cycle and O somewhere between 10-13days. Since this month was D-day I paid very close attention to cervical position & CM so here it goes...
July 12
Day 1-4 Aunt Flow
Day 5-7 dry
Day 8-9 sticky CM, EWCM late in evening
Day 10 VERY soft/high/wet TONS of EWCM in evening  "DTD"
Day 11 same high, soft, wet lots of EWCM "DTD"
Day 12 High, soft, wet EWCM in AM, began creamy cm in evening "DTD"
Day 13 soft, high, creamy cm, pain in left side for about 30 min
Day 14 not as soft, not as high, sticky cmÂ
Guessing I O'ed on day 12 (7/23)? Some months I feel the O pain and some months nothing. This month I did and was also on my "tube" side, so we shall see. This will be the longest 2ww...excited that I am on here again, even though I thought my baby makin days were behind me. Sorry for the novel
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