I'm new here

[Momlette]

Hello! Im new here...this is my first post so I don't really understand where to put things and such. My name is Autumn and I have two toddlers! I have a daughter who will be 3 in Oct and a son who will be 2 in Nov! :D I'm actually in the process of being a surrogate and I'm more then excited! I'm engaged to an asshole who you guys will probably hear a lot about until I get the balls to leave him LOL

[SundayCrepes]

Welcome. 

I'm big on encouraging people to raise kids in a healthy environment so let us know how we can help you gain the strength you need to bring peace and stability into the lives of your little ones. I hope you'll take the steps you need before you become pregnant. That can be such a stressful time and I hate to think how a bad relationship and a pregnancy will effect your kids. Then there's the harmful effects of stress and bad relationships on a developing fetus. That would not be fair to a new person. The effects could last a lifetime.

As you can see, I can be fairly straightforward. I'm just not into enabling. I am into encouraging self-sufficiency and empowerment. I'm especially into trying to get parents to do right by their kids.

So, what do you need to leave this person you do not think highly of?

[lauren]

Hi Momlette and welcome. You landed in the Adoption forum so i am wondering if this is where you want to be? Would you like to discuss mostly the partner? I can move this to Parents as Partners. If you wish to discuss the surrogate issue I think it would go in Personal Growth. Let me know what you'd like to do.