2 days ago, July 27 my dh and I went to our midwife for our routine 16 week appt. To our complete shock, she could not find a heartbeat. We did hear one at 12 weeks, so we felt safe that this baby was going to stick around. She sent us to the hospital right away for ultrasound but it only confirmed our worst fears. Our baby had died. It seems it happened sometime in the past few days, as I was still measuring close to dates.
Since I'm not having any spotting or cramping we decided to go home and absorb the news and help our children through the grief. We're waiting the weekend and then revisit the idea of inducing next week.
If anyone has any btdt advice, I'd greatly appreciate it. I dont know what to expect or where to go from here. It's hell.