I'm wondering if anyone knows where to locate a list of states that allow HBAC, if such a list exists.
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We'll be TTC in about a year or so, and DH & I are entertaining the idea of leaving NJ for someplace with more space and less hustle-bustle/keeping up with the Jones' feel. It's just too darn stressful here! Primary places we're thinking is WA (where I grew up), CO, or MT. Maybe VT, NH, ME or MA, although less likely. In the end, it depends on where DH can find work. He currently has a great job in Princeton, NJ, so relocating closer to his office is also likely, but that doesn't help with the desire for less stress.
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For a little background: My baby boy was born by C-Section in December for water leaking. My membranes ruptured due to failed Castro Oil induction, three days later my midwives insisted on a medical induction (12 hours of Cervidil, followed by 10 hours of Pit) which failed to efface and/or dilate. After no progress, I was out of options.
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I'd LOVE the opportunity to home birth. It's honestly something I've wanted to do since I learned it could be done 10 years ago. With my first/last pregnancy I failed to do enough research in the beginning and wrongly believed my OB would let me have a natural birth. (Afterall, it would be in MY best interest, right?) I switched to a midwifery practice at 36 weeks and hoped for a HB. I blame my inevitable C-section on my OB's lack of nutritional counseling.
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To get to the point, it is illegal in NJ to HBAC. They will let you try for a VBAC in a hospital, and where I live, the options really aren't bad for this. If we do end up moving out of state, I'd love to find one that meets this little requirement of mine.
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Thanks for listening and any advice you may have to offer!












