We just had a terrible vacation -- largely due to both kids not sleeping enough. DDs are 4yo and 21mos, and neither have ever been the best sleepers. Whenever we're away, I just can't settle them down, and they get to bed hours later than normal (ranging from 10:15-11:30 this past time), but wake up at their normal time (5:15-7:25). They don't nap to make up for it -- even in the car or when nursed. After just one night, the next day gets rough, and the following days only get worse.Â
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This time we were in one motel room, but the same thing happens if we visit my parents. It's less than a 3 hour drive to their house; we have two rooms there (because I won't stay otherwise). I bring some of their favorite stuffed animals.  I attempt the bedtime routine. They're familiar with the house, we have regular meals, I start bedtime at about the same time; honestly, it's pretty boring there!Â
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The combination of excitement and being away from home, not to mention DD1's spirited temperament keep us up way too late. I'm at a loss as to how to get them some rest. There some things that did go surprisingly well this last time; I'd hate to strongly avoid spending the night away from home. And yet, it just doesn't seem worth it. Is there anything else I should be trying? Do I have to wait for them to grow out of this? Will they ever? Will doing it more help, or just make me crazy?





