I always hated these threads when I was pg with DS because I felt left out, so if you are a first time mama, I am sorry, I don't mean to be exclusive, I just feel different this time and want to know how it feels for others.
So my question or thought is that I really remember feeling so connected to my DS the instant I knew I was pg. I feel maternal and excited about this baby but I am not constantly thinking/wondering about everything, I am kind of just happy and realizing it takes a long time for a baby to grow. Is it weird to not feel the same connection and did you feel it at some point during pregnancy or once the baby was born? I am not scared I will not love it as much, I am just surprised at my laid back attitude right now.
How did you feel with your second and beyond babies compared with your first during the pregnancy?