Gale, Good luck on the clomid cycle!
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By the way, I don't know what insurance you have but my insurance (Aetna) also said that they don't cover IVF costs. However, I went to a clinic that accepts Aetna and they never really charged me for my IVF monitoring visits before ER and ETÂ (I had those in NYC so they were separate from the IVF costs from Shady Grove.) That's another reason why the Shady Grove clinic was our top choice- for the actual process, we really did end up spending 'only' 19,500 (usually it is 20K but they gave us $500 dollars back for out of state monitoring)- i can't believe I'm saying only.... not including the cost of drugs/travel, etc. And since there is the money back guarantee, we feel no pressure.
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As an alternative, we also looked around NY because my preference was to stay close to home. I also really did like RMA-NY (I first went to a consult with a doctor there and really liked him). I ended up going to RMA for my monitoring visits. For their costs, they have what is called the ARC plan.
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http://www.arcfertility.com/family_building/financial_services.html
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This is the financing plan that the clinic in NY (RMA-reproductive medical associates- they are also based in multiple states) took and they also have a money back or multiple cycle guarantee. Just as an example, I think it was around 28K-30K for 3 fresh/3 frozen (no money back guarantee) and around 38K-40K if we wanted the money back guarantee (70% of the money back). Actual cost is based on test results, age, etc.
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I was worried about this plan because 2 of my friends were unable to freeze their embies and I didn't want to be concerned that i only had 3 tries, if none would freeze. With SG, It's 6 fresh and pretty much unlimited frozen. (by the way, after going through the process, i think I would die if I had to go through this 6 times...towards the end, my arms ached from all the blood tests and my stomach hurt from the needles and the drug related bloating. If it works, it's all worth it though!!!)Â
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Please let me know if you have any questions. May I also suggest that you go on the Summer IVF thread? There are a lot of women who are going through the process and they are so wonderful to talk to and have some great advice. I really felt that the support I received (and continue to receive) from that thread helped me through the process. And a few of the ladies just got their BFP so this may provide support for your DH. :)
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