I agree. I think in order to find common ground, the first thing we need to do is stop nitpicking, especially when something was obviously intended as a joke. I don't get the need to jump all over it especially when it's not even part of the topic. After all, I thought the point of this thread is to find middle ground, not to find ways to start more side arguments.
And being sexist certainly doesn't help find middle ground. The person who posted the sexist remark is AOK to be offensive b/c she's a non-vaxer (just like you and kathymuggle), but I'm not allowed to call her out on it, b/c I'm a vaxer - who you have a personal problem against anyway due to prior arguments on this forum)? Sorry - thats not really the way this works.