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Kanna I mentioned that it seemed odd because it DID seem odd to me. Â Since you asserted you didn't know it was old thread and was genuinely interested in intelligent discussion I figured I'd stick around and discuss instead of go back to lurking. Â That said, it does make me personally very concerned when people post threads talking about need reassurance about homebirth, in the homebirth forum, and people jump in talking about the risks of homebirths. Â When I read the original post it seems to me to be a mother asking LIKE-MINDED mothers for a reminder about why she has made a choice she has already researched and chosen. When a thread title is asking specifically for encouragement, it seems rather rude to me to jump in and start a debate about the risks of homebirth, especially when one of the things the OP was specifically concerned about was how it was going to reflect on the HB community in general. Â That said, since you say you don't have an agenda to push, and are here in an effort to discuss and come away with more information then, I'm sorry I doubted your intentions.
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It seems very easy to say things along the lines of if homebirth and midwives were more regulated, there would be fewer incidences of negligence and incompetence therefore, everyone will be better off with more oversight. Â What I am trying to point out is there are many many of us who DON'T WANT more government oversight in our birthing choices. Â We simply don't want it. Â Those individuals who do want that are going to choose a care provider that is more highly regulated, the OB's, the CNM's, the licensed midwives. Â Those of us who don't WANT that, still want the ability to make our own choices regardless of what others think of the risks. Â It frankly scares the crap out of me when people want to walk in and start taking away my freedoms in an effort to protect me. Â Would I rather be safe, or free? Â I choose free. Â Others choose safe. Â That doesn't mean they should take away MY freedoms by limiting the options of care providers I have. Â
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And it seems to me that you are under the impression that women who have been subjected to poor medical care by the medical establishment have great recourse for retribution. I don't see that.  I suggest you research the deaths from cytotec inductions and the general lack of regard for the families of the women who have died to get a feel for the climate here in the U.S. in regards to medical negligence in the OB community. Here's a link to the Tatia Oden French Memorial Foundation. http://www.tatia.org/id7.html.
*chuckles* I resurrected another old thread today and somebody was surprised....this time it was one about author Neil Gaiman (LOVE his books).
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It might be odd when one looks at the dates...not so much when one looks at the technical set-up of the site (just a small scroll of the button down the list).
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And uhm...you didn't only remark on the oddity of the resurrection of the thread....you also said something about "pushing, pushing, pushing". I wouldn't have minded if it had been just you...but on a supposedly friendly forum, it was several people, one after another, and that gets a bit tiring.
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As for jumping in on the thread when (to you) it was obvious that the mother wanted support for her HB choice....it wasn't to me. As has been said before, MDC used to have a certain "culture" that was very much focused on being supportive (Turquesa said something about coming here for the fluff....because it was missing from most other places she visited). Well, I come from those "other places", I didn't know about the culture of MDC to date (apart from e.g. that people were supposed to be nicer to each other than elsewhere) and so I read the OP's original post in an entirely different way: as a request for input from both sides. Which, since I'm interested in the subject in general, I obliged.
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I think we can both agree that it'd make sense to implement measures that lower neonatal mortality during HB and that weed out incompetent, negligent midwives.
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State regulation seems to work well over here in Europe / Germany (I googled the german words for HB and death and found just one death....in Austria, last year).
I hadn't even heard about homebirth deaths until I surfed a bit on US websites.
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State regulation has great acceptance over here....but then, we're USED to being more regulated. So obviously, the US needs an approach that's more tailored to your culture.
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1. I think SOME kind of regulation and accreditation of homewifes is necessary.
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2. Also more accountability for negative outcomes (=dead babies) when the midwife, for whatever reasons, did NOT adhere to the best possible standards of care for whatever emergency was the cause, might be necessary too.
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Since most midwives don't seem to want state intervention and malpractice isn't seen as workable either from what I've seen? So how by a midwife run organization? ONe for the whole US?
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Yes, I know there are already midwife organizations out there. But (admittedly as a total outsider) I get the impression that they're not doing a very good job of improving safety of midwifery care. (see the Andaluz case we discussed).
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I'm a bit on the fence about the Tatia Oden case you mentioned, because even on their website they say that evidence strongly SUGGESTS a connection between cytotec and AFE....but it hasn't been proven.
I think however that the use of Cytotec in birth is something that requires more research and better clinical practice. (I got cytotec too, but then, I was overdue with a BIG baby and the doctor took a lot of time to inform me of the risks and asked me if I was sure I was o.k. with it. (Says nothing about the safety of Cytotec btw, but it seems german OBs have better bedside manners than their american counterparts).
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Edited by Kanna - 8/11/11 at 12:34am