I am in a pickle. My daughter is 3 years old and 30 lbs and we have had intense pressure from family to turn her. It is actually a source of strife between family members. (MIL has turned DD repeatedly my DH despite asking her not do this) At this point, DD is 3 years old and 30 lbs. Is it worth still fighting?
Their is a catch. DD has extra fluid on the front of her head (benign hydrocephalus/ megacephaly) so she is top heavy. Her head is big - we have had multiple MRI's/cat scans/ etc along the way. She is mostly okay except for some broad gross motor delays.
I keep thinking her head is heavy - rear face her as long as possible. She is in a decathalon with family members and a graco my ride in the family car (much more comphy looking of a seat IMO).
How much longer would you keep fighting over this? DH asked when we could turn her. He said "Come on Michelle - no one rear faces until 2 much less THREE"
Doctors arent much help either..
Thanks for advice