It is so difficult to give up the hope for an amicable divorce. We are both adults. There is no substance abuse issues. We are both employed, etc. But he has decided to make it as "difficult as possible".
And plans to run up huge attorney bills because we are going to be "financially ruined so we might as well be in debt too".
Yes, I am the one who filed for divorce. Yes, I understand that it is a very painful time for him.
But I filed the end of May. It's been three months. He decides to FINALLY hire and attorney and ask for a continuance 4 days before the court date. He is going to change his mind on EVERY single item on the provisional agreement that I already paid MY attorney to prepare and file and that he willingly signed.
It's been three months and he still refuses to move out of the house that he has repeatedly stated he doesn't want and cannot afford to keep.
He sends me multiple text messages/emails every day about how I'm ruining his life, the kids life, etc. He goes through all of my personal belongings including journals, computer history etc. If he doesn't know where I am, he calls my family to find me. He's convinced I am having an affair and tells other people that I am.
It just sucks.