I desperately want to be a minimalist, but DH doesn't go for it. He still talks about how I got rid of a bunch of stuff when he was on deployment and I had to move by myself (3 years ago.) He only noticed like 1 thing missing out of the 7 or so garbage bags of crap I got rid of.
He sees empty space and says "There is an empty space, we can put something there." I see something on a counter top and I try to figure out where I can hide it. My mom is a packrat, though her home is always spotless. She won't quit bringing crap to my house. I have clothes for DD that are size 4T and up! She is 9 months!
My in-laws have knick knacks everywhere. Their walls are covered with interesting things from their diplomat days (things with lots of dust...) and even their kitchen cabinets have tons of knick knacks and stuff on the top of them. I'd go batty if that was our house.
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My favorite home I ever had was a studio apartment when I was 19. It had a twin bed, a loveseat, and a dresser I painted sea foam green. I had a sort of beach theme. My washer and dryer were tiny stacked ones in my kitchen and I had a small bathroom. It was so simple. Also, my apt was brand new. I hate living in old places with dirt on the baseboards and stuff. We bought a brand new home, so if I can get it simplified, I will be able to keep it nice looking for the most part. Already the grout in our tile is grimy looking though because we didn't seal it. ;(
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Our house looks like a tornado hit it right now. We can't even walk in our garage.
I am working on this decluttering stuff, but now I feel like I can't get rid of anything... like.. I have all these different sized clothes because I've been 130lbs all the way up to 220lbs when 9 months preggo! What if that happens again next time? It was really expensive buying all those clothes. Same issue with the huge tubs of baby clothes we have already.
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We also are very committed to our home library. That is not a place that can be minimized. We'll buy more shelves first, lol.