Hey, all. I'm pregnant with my second and looking for some advice.
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With my first I was planning a home birth, but ended up at Woodwinds when I developed pre-e at 38 weeks. I got all my pre-natal care from my DE midwife, so when I got sick I didn't have a pre-existing relationship with an OB and I just got whoever was on call. The nurses at Woodwinds were great, but the OBs I saw (all four during my 3 day labor) were indifferent at best and preachy at worst.
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This time I'm planning a home birth again, but considering parallel care in order to establish a relationship with a practice, in case I need to go in again for something. I just don't know where to begin. I got kind of burned last time: my GP told me that she would be my back-up, but when my blood pressure went up she freaked out and lectured me then sent me to Woodwinds. Also, one of the big reasons I'm planning a hb is because I plan to decline a lot of the standard testing, and I don't like the idea of spending a ton of time/energy/money on prenatal appointments where I only see the OB for 6 minutes. But it'd be nice to have some support and sympathy if I do need to transfer.
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So, what do you all think? What have you homebirthing mamas done in the past? Is shadow care worth it? If I decide to start seeing an OB now (I'm almost 10 weeks), who would be most supportive? Any recommendations for OBs or practices (in the Twin Cities) would be appreciated...
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TIA!








