Finally told my mom, dad and FIL. I thought my dad would be the worst, but he actually said, "WOW, that's great!" and started giggling, lol. FIL said he was "so freaking excited" and started giggling, lol.
My mom, who I thought would be the most supportive, said, "I though you couldn't get *that way*?" then asked how far along I was and said, "Well, don't get too excited yet." Then she said, "You will have to fly down here so I can be in the delivery room." She's in FL, I'm in MI. Why she can't fly up here if she wants to be @ the birth, I have no idea. I said, "actually we're having a home birth," and she said, "Why would you want to do THAT?" She was there when DD was born and knows I went totally naturally and knew I wanted a home birth then but couldn't get someone to do it. So finally she sighed, said, "Well congratulations, I'm happy for you I guess."
We still have our grandparents and MIL to call. I have an epically poor relationship w/ MIL, so that should be interesting. She is currently living in Mexico, so thankfully will not be here when the baby comes. She visited for 2 weeks starting the day after DD was born, and it was a nightmare. She said she came to "help" but did nothing, I cooked, cleaned up after her, did her laundry, etc. all after having JUST had a baby, plus caring for my baby, and she had the NERVE to tell SIL that I was lazy and doing nothing around the house and using DD as an excuse to not do chores. I overheard her say this, and it just gutted me. But she was paying for the groceries while she was there, and so that made it ok, apparently. This is only the tip of the iceberg of our bad history.
We'll see what happens.