When I told my 4yo about the baby, I asked if he thought it was a girl or boy. He said "both." I'll be 10w this weekend and my belly is already sticking way out there. I know showing early isn't unusual in a second pregnancy but suddenly I'm nervous - especially with the heightened nausea and the sudden increase I've had in fatigue. Then I started thinking about my dad being one of two sets of fraternal twins.
I suppose there is no way to know until my visit and quite possibly not until the 18-20w ultrasound. My midwife appointment isn't for a couple of weeks.
What I'm really wondering is if this is just a normal fear or if there is some intuitive process going on!