Anyone have a suggestion for some sort of wedge pillow? Every time I lay Finn down flat in the cosleeper, on his back or even on his side, he spits up and chokes and sputters and it wakes him right up. When he's snuggled up with me in bed, it happens but much less often. I don't think he has actual real reflux, but DD definitely didn't spit up this much or this often. Finn so far is a happy spitter, but I'm not so happy with how it wakes him up 2 min after I put him down at night.
The other question I have is about how in the heck am I supposed to be putting him in the cosleeper? I tend to nurse him down side lying b/c I'm so damn tired, and then I have no desire to risk moving him at that point. Is this what other moms do? Or should I be nursing him sitting up b/c then I could just lay him down? Even when I do that, he wakes up within a few minutes. He only slept one 2 hr stretch in that thing, the first week. Since then it's been a few min here and there, but never a full nap or good stretch of sleep. It's frustrating!!
I just feel like I'm falling into the same bedsharing routine I had with DD and...while I love bedsharing I'm just not sure I want to go down that path again. I really want to have that space for me and DH, not for dtd at all, just for that intimacy of sharing sleep space. Any tips or advice?