Invitin: First of all I would like to say I hope that your stay is short and sweet! You have found a wonderful group of women to share your joys & pain with! As far as your friend is concerned I think I echo what everyone else has already said, just make some clear boundaries and realize that this is not a lottery and your fate is not determined by someone else's good fortune or lack therof! All of my close friends have managed to get oops pregnant in the year + that DP and have been TTC, but I have tried my best to just be genuinely happy for them because I would want the same positive energy when it happen for us! I wish you lots of luck in your journey!
Desert: That thought is EXACTLY what has me wrestling with whether to test or not... I'm always thinking I don't want it to be negative, but what if? As far using 3 vials, I feel as though it may be overkill, 2 is usually optimal, but as you can see Sara & a few others were able to get pregnant from 1 vial. Are you guys temping? That would be an effective way to chart ovulation and thus reduce the need for more vials. YAY for FS walking!! Now you won't be able to slow him down lol!
Ad Astra: I was sitting here debating whether it would toughen my skin to see a BFN or AF to arrive I am so happy that you were able to hear the heartbeat!!! I know that you have to be over the moon!
Krista: Very impressive!
Carmen: You & me both! I am just downright petrified! My monitor was on high for over a week before it gave me a peak day, so don't fret just yet
KsDoula: Thank you for the link! I can add this to my Doula CD
MrsPP: I am so happy for you I wish I could reach out and just hug you! I always get worried about timing, I think it is a normal part of the process.Welcome to the dreaded 2WW also know as the "Let's analyze every movement, bump, gas bubble, and burp for the next 2 weeks" I am hoping that you have some GREAT Beginners Luck!!
AFM: Well we are at 10DPO almost 11DPO and I am FREAKING OUT! So I have been trying to coax DP into letting me test in the morning before I leave for vacation, but I don't think she is going for it which means that I have to wait until I get back home which isn't until SUNDAY! That means I can't test until Monday of next week!! UGH! That will be 16DPO and at that point all suspense will be gone anyway because AF is due either Saturday or Sunday *pouting* I have not really had any symptoms that are significant. I have been having creamy/lotion CM (TMI sorry) for the past week or so, my temps are still high but AF is not due yet either. My breasts are kind of sore but that is normal the week before AF. I have been having these cramps for the past 2 days that kind of feel like a mix between AF & Ovulation cramps like this achy feeling so who knows maybe AF is coming early or gearing up. But as mush as I want to test I am terrified of whether it will be positive or not. DP did have a "spirit baby" dream last night so maybe that is a positive sign. I guess we will know 1 way or another tomorrow, Saturday, or Monday