Hi Jamie -
My question is, What is going on between my dh and his old girlfriend? They have been emailing back and forth - initially connected on FB. I would really appreciate any insight you could offer.
Oh okay, so here it is. I didn't read all the questions before I answered your first one.
So this is where we are confirmed that he's straying in the heart and mind as I said in my first message. But I think that's as far as it's gone.
That's not good though and not healthy. That relationship must end. Seeking understanding and stuff from another woman while your marriage is in a difficult place is not acceptable, nor helpful toward repairing your marriage.
Please find a way to communicate this with him, (respectfully and lovingly), as it needs to end. his heart cannot be confused and in two places to heal at home.