My DS is 23 months and I am interested in weaning. I work part time now after recently stepping back from my profession as a midwife, but he still nurses all the time. Some days he will refuse food. He is a small kiddo only about 21 pounds so I worry that the nursing is not enough calories for his active nature. He does not sleep well either and wakes up about every hour or two to nurse. He's super healthy overall and never gets sick and we are very well attached, I am just needing advise on how to begin this process gently and effectively. He is not talking very much for his age (only saying a few unclear words) and we are seeking EI for this. I'd love to think about another baby in the next year or so, just a little traumatized by the demands of nursing a toddler. I don't want to take the boob from him since he loves it so much, but I really feel at times like I am sacrificing what I want for him to continue and not setting or demonstrating good boundaries. Any kind advice would be greatly appreciated.