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Given hope for a VBAC

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Good morning,

I came into pregnancy #2 thinking that having a c-section was my only option.

With DD1 I went to 42 weeks, cervix was still hard so wound up with an induction(3cervadils and pitocin). I never progressed past 5 cm and since there was muconeum I had to have a c-section. I was ok with it at that point since I feel like I really didn't rush into it and I wanted to make sure dd was ok.

After I was told my uterus had an extension tear 4 cm long off of my incision. The sugeon pretty much told me no VBAC for the next baby and to wait 2 yrs to get pregnant.

There are 4 midwives in the practice I use. One kept telling me why would you not just take the surgeon's advice? I wound p sticking with the practice, but had a consult with a different one whose research for her doctorate was on VBACs. I'm so excited that she feels I am a candidate and is at least giving me hope. I was picking her brain about the surgeon, apparently he not even a pro-VBAC dr and isn't a part of their practice anymore since the didn't "mesh."

I'm still in my first trimester so I have a while, around 31-2 weeks she said we'd meet with the physician and workout the details.

I think part of the problem last time around was I couldn't relax. I had a doula and we just didn't mesh, she actually just really annoyed me. I'm going to start to practice meditation, any other recommendations? Books? I get adjusted frequently, i'm a chiropractor smile.gif so I'm doing that already.

Thank you! Sorry it's so Long!
post #2 of 4

When you have an anti-vbac person in your midst, they will just say no and use anything as an excuse to scare you from the vbac. Ignore those people. Ignore that surgeon. Why would a surgeon encourage you to not use their product (the surgery)?

 

Despite many people telling me to hire a doula, I never did. I just cannot relax with others around and did not want to feel bossed around or like I am disappointing her. A doula might not be for you, or a different one might be better. (((hugs)))

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I totally agree..and I think there probably would be a better doula out there for me, but I think I can relax more with just my DH there. Thank u!
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I'm due in March and planning for a VBAC. So I don't have any "first hand" experience. But I did Hypnobabies with DD and am doing it again this time around. I'm finding that it's helping me calm down a lot more and just be relaxed. I'm searching for a midwife that I mesh with at the moment so I totally hear you about that. I really really like my OB and trust her opinion but she can't VBAC at the hospital where she delivers so that's out. I met with one MW and liked her but am still having a hard time making up my mind. And I am the kind of person who either loves you or hates you pretty much right away, so I"m going to keep looking for a MW.

 

But short story is, try hypnobabies. There is a free "relax me" audio on the website. I thought it would be a little out there for me, but I found that I really enjoyed it. And it really helped me have a fast birth (even if I did end up with a cs).

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