I agree with the others who have said please share as much as you're comfortable with.
I wish so much I had been part of a "DDC" seven years ago when our baby daughter passed away. Even though I was grieving, I was still as proud as any other mother...about my birth, my daughter's life, how she looked, and so on. But because our society has such a taboo about death, there was a limited amount of people that even asked about her, let alone take the time to look at pictures or listen to me tell our story.
On a somewhat related note, please be aware that because many people are so awkward about death, you may have to deal with comments/platitudes that may anger you, like "It's better off this way" or " At least you can have another baby" or the one that really made me mad - "You have an angel in heaven now!" I always wanted to scream back "I don't want a #$%@ angel, I want my BABY back!" I always tried to remember that they meant well, they just didn't know what to say.
Hoping you are able to birth peacefully, and gather many precious memories.
And if you want to share, we'd be truly honored.