Ooo I have my own, finally. I have an amazing beautiful daughter I adore. I hate the assumption that I need a boy. I hate that people are outright telling me that they hope this kid is a boy. You know, we'd love another girl. We'd also love a boy. WE DON'T CARE.
"If one more person tells me..." game - Page 2
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9/13/11 at 7:44am
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9/14/11 at 1:19pm
Y'all are scaring me. We're not out to most people yet--just immediate family and the friends who knew we'd been trying. The one I'm most worried about is the endless questioning about how I got pregnant in the first place (because we're two women). I expect the endless inquiries about cheating/quick baby-making flings/why not just f**k my BIL/etc (that last one I actually got a lot when people asked if we ever wanted kids. Yuck. Just, yuck.). Do I explain what goes into queer TTC, or do I just say 'IVF'? I wanted to say, 'Oops.' but it took so much work to get here that it doesn't seem as funny as it did when I thought we'd be preggo after the first or second try.