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So jealous of those of you reporting posst-pregnancy relationship bliss.  we seem to argue daily.  I am so exhausted and trying to function to care for our 2 kids - he seems to think Im not "being nice" etc to him- Im tired but I dont see my behavior as bitchy - I could be delirious at this point!!!!  So frustrating and sad but I just do not even have the energy to try to communicate with him about this.  UGH

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Hugs! Sorry to hear that :(


Edited by zombie_bride - 12/20/11 at 7:07pm
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Not blissful here by any means. Just *better* then it was during pg, but I think it's because he knows things are still shaky so I observe an effort on his part not to make comments he knows will piss me off. We shall see how long that lasts. I can tell there is interest from DH in DTD now that DS2 is 6 weeks old, and no way in heck I'm going there anytime soon.

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Hugs! Sorry to hear that and I know how you are feeling because I am going through the same thing with my DH. All we do is snap at each other, he is not being patient with our 3 yo and he is not being aware of postpartum hormones. It sucks trying to juggle your two children and then a grumpy husband. :( Hope it gets better for us both



thank you- exactly - a little patience from him with me and my 4 year old would be GREAT!!!

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I'm sorry you guys are going through this!  I hope things get better for you and your hubbies start being more kind towards you and your other children.  I don't know how we would be if we had a NB and other toddlers....  The thought makes me a bit nervous really!  Hope you are able to get some extra rest somehow and maybe have a good conversation with your DHs to resolve some things.... hug2.gif grouphug.gif

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I'm sorry you guys are going through this!  I hope things get better for you and your hubbies start being more kind towards you and your other children.  I don't know how we would be if we had a NB and other toddlers....  The thought makes me a bit nervous really!  Hope you are able to get some extra rest somehow and maybe have a good conversation with your DHs to resolve some things.... hug2.gif grouphug.gif



thank you - to clarify, my husband is great with my daughter- I just have very low patience these days and want it quiet- he'll try to discipline her and I just want them to go away!!!  He is also ready and willing to feed the baby a night so I can rest- Im just not ready to hand over my precious baby yet.  We were a LOT more loving towards each other with just one- and hope things smooth out eventually.  I have NO idea how people do it with several little ones.

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Oh good! I'm glad you guys have all those good things going for you!  I probably miss-read your post a bit :-/  I'm sure things will keep getting better as you ease into it all.  I hope it gets better and better as you guys get used to your new addition! 

 

I have no idea how people do it with one child and a baby!  Although I hope to find out one day...  orngtongue.gif

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