We found out with DD mainly because DH had me do that stupid pee in a cup gender test and we wanted to see if it was right. It was wrong. So we had a girl. This time around we are being super sneaky and might find out but tell everyone that we didn't. We're torn. After we found out with DD my shower was a pink nightmare (despite telling everyone no pink) and we really didn't get many of the neutral things we were hoping to receive (neutral mainly because we wanted to be able to use them for #2 or pass them along to someone else).
Since this pregnancy is so different from DDs I think it's a boy and kinda want to find out just to see if I'm right or not. Plus we only had the one girl name and used it, so if it's a girl we need to come up with another one. Not a big deal, but I did like being able to call DD by her name before she was born. It made everything a little bit more real to me.