I just wanted to chime in and say I am also feeling nervous even though I am almost 12 weeks (2 more days to go!) and saw a heartbeat on US at 9wks+. However, the nervousness doesn't really go away. I saw the heartbeat numerous times before my mc last time. Anyway, now I am almost 12 weeks and it is quite hard to hide the fact that I am pregnant so my newest dilemma is telling people.
So far, we haven't told anyone except my yoga teacher and best friend (and fellow reflexologist who was about to give me a treatment). Our families live abroad. I don't want to tell anyone! I especially don't want to tell my kids who will be super excited like they were last time and 18months later are still talking about the baby who died. I don't want to see them get hurt again.
Anyone else feel this way?
I will go this week or next sometime to hear the heartbeat and then I think I will feel able to tell people or at least prepare myself to answer if they ask.