Ok... My DH does nothing. NOTHING! And he's the best at it too. However I don't have to do the school drill everyday and I don't have to make dinner. Those are the two things he does. The rest... well... I do. If this is your situation, as in your husband comes home every day, does laundry, cleans the kitchen, bathroom, readies the clothes for the next day, feeds the dogs, pays the bills, showers the kids, does homework with the kids, volunteers at school events with the kids...
Then just maybe he can safely say you do nothing. But the top of the fridge... WTH?!
I like to know what some peoples spouses do at work. See I do NOTHING! I do stuff, but it's really nothing. NO stress, no deadlines. Just show up and hang out all day with my friends. And yes, I do some work but it's fun to me so really, it's not work. So if I do laundry, doesn't bother me. If I do the routines with the kids, YAY! I love my kid time.
Was his mother a stay at home? If you're on good terms sometimes moms can be bears! DH's mom's have set him straight numerous times, he doesn't like to argue and see me reach for the phone about stuff he just doesn't get.