Its her husband, I wanted to confirm it for the fact.
1. I am sorry I am not articulate as its kinda tough typing thru cell and auto correct... I guess I shud have takes masters in English rather than Electrical Engineering and then I will wud not be called a dimwad, joker etc etc
2. And nope I am not stalking her. she is the one who showed me all her posts and responses on monthering.com and after reading all the posts I cud not resist but to post a comment and she was well aware of my post.
3. Unfortunately like she has talked about bad about myself, I am not the one who is gonna say anything bad about my wife. I have never ever ever said anything bad about my wife to anyone whatsoever. even online to strangers and she will vouch for that.
4. Unfortunately, she has already made this public matter so I have every right to come and talk here.
5. I want to stress again she was insecure about her breasts and I tried everything in the world possible to make her feel better about it and when i cud not make her feel better about it and saw her so stressed quite a few times thats when i gave up and suggested she shud get a boob job so she can feel better about it. I GUESS THAT MAKES BE A BAD HUSBAND THAT I WANT TO MAKE MY WIFE FEEL SECURE AND HAPPY ABOUT HER BODY. I didnot marry her for her boobs I married her because of the way I felt when I was with her and how i felt about her when I was not with her.
6. yes I cheated and its all my fault and it has nothing to do with who my wife looks and how the other woman looked... My affair with the other woman ended well before my wife found out about it. I was weak I was not thinking I put my whole life at risk.. trust me you guys donot know what I am going thru and as this will be my last post here you guys will never know. I cried I apologized and go emotional few times a day but that does not matter.
7. Thanks to you guys the only thing she thinks right now is that I cheated on her and a lot of online forums are telling her to leave me. It does not matter that I worked my ass off 70 to 80 hours a week all those 7 years off our marriage and provided her with everything she needs.. she wanted to be a stay home mom she got that. there are so many things I have sacrificed to.
8. Just so you know before this whole affair started when we were really going thru rough patch as a couple i tried to ignore her nagging every day when i came home tired after 12 hours of work shift. I tried to take her out on dates and we had the most horrible time. she did not enjoy going out which i really wanted to go out and have fun times with her.
Please donot take me wrong I am not justifying cheating on her at all. I fucked up and I know that its not her fault its all mine. I wish I cud take back the time but I know I can not and now I have to live with the fact that I ruined the lives of my kids and my real love.
9. To be honest Thanks to you guys from mothering and a lot of other online forums This Marriage is over... Thanks for giving judgements on the things you donot know the both sides off. If you were the justice system then we will never need a defence lawyer and you guys will hang everybody and donot care the lives of the kids involved in this fiasco.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU GUYS FROM BOTTOM OF MY HEART...