arduinna said:
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| I agree with you to a point. Was it really mine is better that is the problem? Or is it mine is the only way that is?? Because one can think their way is better and not necessarily think it's the only way. |
I agree. However, I tend to think the former leads to the latter, particularly in the small-minded, and there's where the problems tend to arise.
stafl said:
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But if these practices somehow comfort me and bring me closer to my own spirituality, why wouldn't it be appropriate for me to celebrate them?
Since I associate with no one particular organized religion or belief system, am I to be denied the chance to pray and worship in my own unique mish-mash way? |
I personally think that's probably the difference. You aren't appropriating it and then institutionalizing or promiting it, merely taking it for your own use, and apparently doing so after careful and thoughtful consideration, not because it's "cool" or "in."
Meiri said:
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| It seems to me that a specific custom removed from the rest of the cultural context from which it originates loses most of its meaning. |
I would think so, too.
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| But I think one possible reason is that some people are so appalled at Christianities belief that only their God their way is the way; that they go to the complete opposite of any and every way is acceptable. And it doesn't matter what any culture thinks because I have a right to it all. |
Or they're so enamored of a sense of what I might call "religious political correctness" that they do this. You know, the kind of PC that tends to be homogenizing rather than tolerating/celebrating differences as people like to say it does. (I may not be putting that at all well, I can't seem to express myself!) I tend to differentiate between "divisiveness" and "difference," preferring the latter to the former.
arduinna said:
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| I wasn't saying that you do believe what I posted. What I posted was my opinion of what can happen when anyone (not specifically you) believes that they can appropriate what they want without consideration of where it came from and what it was traditionally used for |
Okay, I understand better now and I see your point. In my own personal case, I tend to believe that all is Truth and just different paths being taken, but that doesn't mean I am going to start doing rituals from here and there. I tend to find meaning in the Christian rituals, I think probably because that's more of a *cultural* familiarity with me, not because I buy into everything they say. I certainly don't buy into the idea that it's the only path, which probably would make me a hopeless hypocrite and head case to a lot of the people I go to church with.

At this point in my life, I don't much care about that. It's like, I feel a soul stirring when I hear "Amazing Grace" on the bagpipes probably equally because it's that song and because I'm Scotch-Irish and appreciation of bagpipe playing must be in the genes. So spiritually that means something to me because it's my culture and my background.
I'm rambling and not sure I'm making a point here. Sorry....
Ultimately I'm not sure I know the answer. I can really see some points on both sides of the issue, and I feel the answer has as much to do with someone's motivation as to the actual rituals they are trying to appropriate......
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