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post #61 of 192

It has been forever since I have been in here because of no computer! Hope all you ladies are doing well and that my money gets straight soon enough to be back on Mothering full time.

 

But I'm living with my grandmother and two kiddos since the husband left in January. (And my grandmother is the kind that believes in going against my every wish on everything from what the kids eat, to routines and rules, etc)

Trying to come up with a deposit for an apartment and I need $150 more! She's holding it but I don't know how much longer. I got a new job and start today or Monday (depending on what time my background check gets back), but won't get paid until the 28th. ugh.

XH has only been gone since January and he's already $2500 behind in child support.

 

Other than CHA CHA and survey sites, does anyone have any good ways to make money doing something online part time?

I would browse the boards more thoroughly, but I'm at the library and only have 30 minutes!

 

 

post #62 of 192

Dh's paycheck dropped another $50.  I can make it work, but it's tight.  A lot of our money goes to savings, but that is because we desperately need to replace both our vehicles this next year.  So, what looks like a lot of money in our savings account (for us, given our history of having no savings) is rather artificial and will be mostly gone next spring.  Then, hopefully we'll move and that money we have been used to putting into savings while we sell the house using one of those "sell in 90 days or we buy your house" deals.  The deal will be enough to cover our 1st and 2nd mortgages and then we'll be free of this house.  THEN, we'll be able to start saving for real.  Hoping our plans work out and don't get derailed by something unexpected!!!  I HAVE to move closer to my family and get out of this climate.  I've been miserable trying to raise a bunch of kids when 6 mo out of the year it is too cold to be outside.

post #63 of 192
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Dh's paycheck dropped another $50.  I can make it work, but it's tight.  A lot of our money goes to savings, but that is because we desperately need to replace both our vehicles this next year.  So, what looks like a lot of money in our savings account (for us, given our history of having no savings) is rather artificial and will be mostly gone next spring.  Then, hopefully we'll move and that money we have been used to putting into savings while we sell the house using one of those "sell in 90 days or we buy your house" deals.  The deal will be enough to cover our 1st and 2nd mortgages and then we'll be free of this house.  THEN, we'll be able to start saving for real.  Hoping our plans work out and don't get derailed by something unexpected!!!  I HAVE to move closer to my family and get out of this climate.  I've been miserable trying to raise a bunch of kids when 6 mo out of the year it is too cold to be outside.

ugh, 50 bucks is a lot! that is really good that you are still saving, too though.  I was and then the kids went back to school and there were so many costs associated with it--fees for this and that. I'm sure we qualify for reduced/free lunch but I don't like the school having that info and my kids won't eat the lunch at school anyway.  They just wouldn't eat.  So there went the saving!

where do you live that it is so cold?  It is cold here, and dark and gray for months and months in the winter and wet. but nothing fun like snow....
 

 

post #64 of 192

subbing.

 

hub has been working some overtime lately. good thing, right? nope;. it pushed us off of food stamps, and since they go by GROSS pay not takehome pay, we are beyond broke yet again. <sigh> will reapply in a month, but still. we are already living with the inlaws and just can't seem to get caught up much less ahead.

post #65 of 192
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Other than CHA CHA and survey sites, does anyone have any good ways to make money doing something online part time?

I would browse the boards more thoroughly, but I'm at the library and only have 30 minutes!

 

 


 

what is cha cha?

post #66 of 192

I almost never see REALLY positive reports here. Just people commiserating with others having bad thing after bad thing happen. I really wanted our story to be the positive one here. (don't we all) We were doing so well, things were looking up, but just like most of those living on the edge we got into trouble again. We're having some legal trouble, and there went every penny we've saved to try to buy a house. Savings are gone, debt's rising again, I had to pawn my wedding ring this week. 1 step forward, 2 steps back. I'm just so very tired. Sigh...

post #67 of 192
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what is cha cha?



It is a service where people send you questions and you answer them and get paid. But it's about $0.10-0.20 a question.

post #68 of 192
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subbing.

 

hub has been working some overtime lately. good thing, right? nope;. it pushed us off of food stamps, and since they go by GROSS pay not takehome pay, we are beyond broke yet again. <sigh> will reapply in a month, but still. we are already living with the inlaws and just can't seem to get caught up much less ahead.



Sorry :(

 

I know all about the gross vs. take home pay. 

post #69 of 192
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I almost never see REALLY positive reports here. Just people commiserating with others having bad thing after bad thing happen. I really wanted our story to be the positive one here. (don't we all) We were doing so well, things were looking up, but just like most of those living on the edge we got into trouble again. We're having some legal trouble, and there went every penny we've saved to try to buy a house. Savings are gone, debt's rising again, I had to pawn my wedding ring this week. 1 step forward, 2 steps back. I'm just so very tired. Sigh...



((hugs))

 

this is where we are, too!  we had some good stuff happen and it looked like we were climbing out of the hole. and then BAM.  But you did it once, you will do it again.  hang in there!

post #70 of 192

Ok, things are looking up. DH is getting into his busy season, so overtime will be his for the taking for Nov-Dec. Yay!

 

We seem to be getting the finances into a working situation. We want to go visit his parents (they haven't met the kids yet) next January. We are looking at taking Amtrak because it's SUCH a long drive for two small kids. The bedroom car would be perfect for us, but it'll push the cost of traveling to about $1k. Not bad, but we'll have to really focus on saving for the next several months.

 

On the upside, DH had one of his tires go bad (you could see through the rubber in places) and we were able to get it fixed without going completely off the deep end, financially. Yay!

post #71 of 192

Well I had to spend some funds today, unintended but OLD NAVY was having extra off clearance and 75% off winter/fall clothes.  DS got 7 pcs for $40 and he is wearing MENS sizes now.  That wasn't really in the budget but darn near free shirts and pj pants are a must.  I can not afford to use the heat this winter so the boy needs long sleeves.

 

I may go to a different O.N. tomorrow and check out their stock. He needs more PJ pants.

post #72 of 192

Zebra depending on the size you need I've seen some good men's clothing boxes recently on thredup. 

 

I've been listing in demand boxes on thredup to try to gain enough credits to cash in for a free box of clothes for DD - she needs winter fleece PJs badly but I haven't been able to find any in our thrift shops. I can't afford the heat either this winter, so we are going to be dressing warmer too.

post #73 of 192

I had cut my work hours from 40 to 15 hrs because of my daughters appts and therapy and things I can't keep up but after realizing my husband will be laid off again shortly I went back up to 40 hrs. Sigh I am having a hard time keeping up with school work, the kids appts, work now DD (4) has strep throat and the oldest woke up this morning sick. Ugh, can't catch a break at all. I have a dr appt FINALLY for my issues I have been having but need to come up with the $160 to be seen by Dec otherwise I will need to cancel. Hope everyone is doing okay and staying warm.

post #74 of 192


Us too. Really good things will happen then BAM the end and lots of bad things. Exhausting

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((hugs))

 

this is where we are, too!  we had some good stuff happen and it looked like we were climbing out of the hole. and then BAM.  But you did it once, you will do it again.  hang in there!



 

post #75 of 192
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ugh, 50 bucks is a lot! that is really good that you are still saving, too though.  I was and then the kids went back to school and there were so many costs associated with it--fees for this and that. I'm sure we qualify for reduced/free lunch but I don't like the school having that info and my kids won't eat the lunch at school anyway.  They just wouldn't eat.  So there went the saving!

where do you live that it is so cold?  It is cold here, and dark and gray for months and months in the winter and wet. but nothing fun like snow.... 

 

Yes, $50 is a lot, but the total down since August is $450 a month, and I'm afraid we haven't hit our bottom yet. bigeyes.gif  As far as free lunch, we have our kids in our parish school and they get scholarship funds, so the school is already well aware of our situation.  Oldest DS moved on to public high school this year and got an automatic approval for free lunch through the FS program, without my even asking or filing any forms.  I totally sympathize with your not wanting to share personal financial info like that, though.  It's incredibly uncomfortable.  But, I am happy to know that our private school actually receives more money through the free lunch program than they charge for school lunches, so it benefits them to have kids on free/reduced lunch.  Our school is sooo small that little things like this make a difference.  

 

We live in the upper midwest.  The last few years have been brutal.  I grew up on the East coast in VA and I am so not prepared for this environment.  And our house is just crazy.  We do not have heating ducts in two of the kids' bedrooms and have had contractors in looking at it and no one wants to even do the job to fix it.  I'm just done here and need to move on.  
 

ETA:  I'm vacillating whether to contact our social worker to adjust our FS yet or wait until I feel like we've hit a plateau.  I got a letter that they are transitioning to an online renewal process, so maybe that'll come soon.  Also, anyone who prays our would like to send good thoughts our way that we get a good subsidy for our heating expenses this year would be greatly appreciated.  Sometimes during our winter lows in our income, just having that subsidy makes the difference between being okay and not, you know?

 

post #76 of 192

I have no idea what we're going to do next month - it's looking like we're going to be nearly $500 short for November and December both. I have no idea what we're going to do - I can pay the mortgage and maybe the electric bill if it's not too high but everything else I just don't have to funds for. I don't have anything left to sell other than our car, and it's been up on craigslist for months without selling, even with us dropping the price several times. We can't get assistance with the electric without letting it go to a pink notice, and we're on a payment plan so getting a pink notice would void it. 

 

Any words of advice on trying to get help from agencies with water, phone, etc bills? I've never really had to use them before - I know where to go just never gone before as we've always managed to make it. 

post #77 of 192
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I have no idea what we're going to do next month - it's looking like we're going to be nearly $500 short for November and December both. I have no idea what we're going to do - I can pay the mortgage and maybe the electric bill if it's not too high but everything else I just don't have to funds for. I don't have anything left to sell other than our car, and it's been up on craigslist for months without selling, even with us dropping the price several times. We can't get assistance with the electric without letting it go to a pink notice, and we're on a payment plan so getting a pink notice would void it. 

 

Any words of advice on trying to get help from agencies with water, phone, etc bills? I've never really had to use them before - I know where to go just never gone before as we've always managed to make it. 



Check into Catholic Charities.  They assist anyone of any religion or no religion.  

post #78 of 192



 

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ETA:  I'm vacillating whether to contact our social worker to adjust our FS yet or wait until I feel like we've hit a plateau.  I got a letter that they are transitioning to an online renewal process, so maybe that'll come soon.  Also, anyone who prays our would like to send good thoughts our way that we get a good subsidy for our heating expenses this year would be greatly appreciated.  Sometimes during our winter lows in our income, just having that subsidy makes the difference between being okay and not, you know?

 



Prayers and good intentions being sent your way!! hug2.gif We just got our LIHEAP payment so I understand. It wasn't as much as I thought but I know there are lots more people in need this year and anything is a huge help.

 


Edited by maciascl - 10/16/11 at 1:51pm
post #79 of 192

Well, I got the online forms for IBR today. I have some personal feelings against IBR but I need to do something around here and I keep telling myself that this is a temporary solution.  I ran the numbers online and IBR says I won't have to pay anything so that should free up some funds every month.  Since I seem incapable of making more money I need to find more money with what I already have.

I also dropped classes again this term.  I just can not handle school at this point or adding to student loans, although the overage $$ would've been nice.  I've done a total 180 with my stress level this past week.

I think the reality that the holidays are nearing, DS needs some clothing and there are a few household items that just need to be replaced are adding stress.  Really should buying envelopes add stress??  Thats like a $2 purchase.

And to top it all off, I need new sneakers.  My feet hurt so bad, I'm hoping to find a decent sale in the next couple weeks.  I have very hard to fit feet so this should be interesting.  (11wide with a large toe box)  ugh.

post #80 of 192
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Originally Posted by mylilmonkeys View Post

Check into Catholic Charities.  They assist anyone of any religion or no religion.  



The Mormon church also helps with things like this. You don't have to be a member (I'm not and have received assistance), but you do have to do some community service work with them by doing church clean up on a Sat. morning.

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