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post #1 of 14
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I have been having sexual dreams for  a month or so now and was wondering if I am alone in this. They're super sexual and I have a climax IRL! It wakes me up every time. They're not every night but at least twice a week now. My libido during the day has been increased as well, so I wonder if they are related. 

Am I alone here?

post #2 of 14

You are so not alone!  This is one of my favorite pregnancy "symptoms."  I'll take it over the headaches and vomiting I had in the first tri!!

 

Mine are often funny as well as naughty.  I had one recently in which two guys I had high school crushes on were arguing over me (!) while I ate lunch, and my dream-self thought "Yup, now that I'm pregnant, everybody wants a piece of this."  Ridiculous for so many reasons, not the least of which is the pregnant part.  :)

 

But yeah, poor DH has been complaining about getting attacked at 3 am on a work night.  shy.gif

post #3 of 14

I wish!  I've been having really weird, screwed up dreams instead. 

post #4 of 14

In addition to the vivid nightmares, I also have the vivid sexual dreams. It's the complete opposite of my first pregnancy. My poor DH, I was absolutely repulsed by him my first pregnancy. This pregnancy is so different. 

post #5 of 14

i have crazy pregnancy dreams, super erotic ones included.  pretty nice benefit if you ask me.. don't even have to worry about working around the large belly or being tired.  fantastic to sleep and O at the same time.

post #6 of 14

Each time I've been pregnant my libido definitely goes up.  This is the first time that my dreams have been this intensely sexual though.  I've always thought that I was rather naive and somewhat innocent, but apparently I have an alter ego who's not....   innocent.gif

post #7 of 14
Thread Starter 

Ha! I love it, ladies! Thanks so much for sharing. I'm glad I'm not alone. You guys really made me laugh.

post #8 of 14

I'll have what SHE"s having....make it a double! Thank you very much. loveeyes.gif

post #9 of 14
Thread Starter 

LOL@mysweetfiona!

 

Anyone's dreams NOT staring their husband/SO yet? We're very open in our marriage and talk about everything, so he knows who is in them and what's going on and I think he's starting to get a bit nervous that he hasn't made an appearance yet. Poor guy. 

What about you?

post #10 of 14
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LOL@mysweetfiona!

 

Anyone's dreams NOT staring their husband/SO yet? We're very open in our marriage and talk about everything, so he knows who is in them and what's going on and I think he's starting to get a bit nervous that he hasn't made an appearance yet. Poor guy. 

What about you?

 

Umm...yeah, DH has not appeared in any of mine.  innocent.gif  But they're usually populated with a pretty strange cast of characters...guys I knew like 20 years ago (see above post re high school crushes!), old acquaintances, etc.  Generally speaking not anyone I'm at all into IRL, but I guess my crazy pregnant subconscious is not so discriminating!
 

 

post #11 of 14
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You are so not alone!  This is one of my favorite pregnancy "symptoms."  I'll take it over the headaches and vomiting I had in the first tri!!

 

Mine are often funny as well as naughty.  I had one recently in which two guys I had high school crushes on were arguing over me (!) while I ate lunch, and my dream-self thought "Yup, now that I'm pregnant, everybody wants a piece of this."  Ridiculous for so many reasons, not the least of which is the pregnant part.  :)

 

But yeah, poor DH has been complaining about getting attacked at 3 am on a work night.  shy.gif


hahahah I'm dying! This is ridiculous and so funny! As for me... my libido is up during the day but not in dreamland :P

 

post #12 of 14
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OK, interesting development in this symptom. I had my ultrasound on Thursday and they asked me to drink 20oz of water an hour before so my bladder would be full. When I got in there she looked and my uterus right above my cervix was contracting because of my full bladder. This got me wondering if my bladder got full enough (like it does at night), could it cause more contractions, like in my PC muscles (I believe they are what contracts during an orgasm)? Could this be a factor? Also, is my body doing this to strengthen my PC muscles for birth? I was too shy to tell a stranger that I have orgasms in my sleep in front of my DH and DS, so I didn't ask. Nice bonus either way, and way more fun than doing kegels! 

What do you think, ladies?

post #13 of 14

Ever since my 2nd trimester, i cant get sex off my mind. It keeps me awake at night. However, i dont desire to actually have sex, since i dont think my body would accomodate  in real life as well as it does in my fantasies.  Im kind of sick of my hormones making me go haywire though, i'd like a break, and actually get some sleep! Having orgasms in my sleep would be nice, but not while im trying to sleep and unable to.

(im not sexually active right now, but was in my first and 2nd pregnancy, and it was mostly awkward, so im not missing it :-)  But as i am single, i am making plans to date again for the first time in 5 years, once my kids are school age-a few more years to go i guess-ironic that i should be doing this when im about to have a baby!)

 

ps. i guess being horny is a nice side effect of pregnancy, since its biologically unnecessary right?

 

Enjoy it!

post #14 of 14

I've had some sex dreams on and off during this pregnancy. They're prob more steamy than my real-life love life is right now! Lol

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