I think I've pretty much ignored the "rules" with each of my pregnasnd ncies. I'm Greek, and I always ate loads of feta with my other pregnancies (not this time, but only because I'm on the GAPS diet for immune healing, and feta not allowed). I eat lots of raw cheddar, raw or undercooked eggs, raw dairy...basically, if What to Expect says not to eat it...I just might.
I was in a wedding last weekend, and since we haven't announced to family or friends yet, I was unsure of what to do at the three different times that champagne was made to be a serious event. So, I just sipped, and left it at that.
DH and I have s Groupon for wine tasting that expires next month, so we're going to go. My mom's OB (who I would go to if I had hospital births) told me that women in Europe drink wine every day during pg, and it's not really a big deal. I don't drink a ton outside of pregnancy anyway, but I have a glass a week or so, so I guess it's okay to sip here and there when I'm pg.