You'll never believe what DH did last night.....

[Belia]

May get a smidge graphic... sorry....

So for the past several months to a year, DH and I have been talking about TTC #2.  We agreed we would start "this fall."  I visited the OB/GYN and hematologist in June.  I started taking prenatal vitamins in July.  I started temping and charting in August, just to see what my body was doing.  I happily shared with him last month when I discovered that I O'd.  I bought a pregnancy test at Walgreens when it was on sale and I had a coupon.  None of this is a secret- I've been updating him every step of the way and have checked in with him at every step to make sure we were still on the same page.

Now, we don't DTD that often, but last night we did.  DH asks if he needs to use a condom, and I say no.  And he gets to the end, and he PULLS OUT!

I'm like, 

So after a minute or two I ask, Ummm, honey????  WTH?!?!?!

And he says, "Oh!  Well, I wasn't sure if we were really going to TRY try, or if it was time yet, or if it was too soon....I mean, I know we were going to try, and I know we said the fall, but I wasn't sure if the fall meant NOW... heh heh heh.... oooops."

I was like, are you KIDDING me?  I'm 38 years old!  I have been charting!  I have been taking these awful nasty vitamins!  I told you we didn't need a condom.  WE'VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT THIS FOR A YEAR!!!!!    I swear my eyes rolled so far in the back of my head I gave myself a migraine.

Now, don't worry kind mamas about my DH trying to send me any subconscious signals or anything.  I am SURE that wasn't it.  He was just being his typical, fly-by-the-seat-of-his-pants self who didn't bother to think things through until 3.4 seconds prior to orgasm.  Unlike me, the planner of the family, who has had everything mapped out for months now.

I swear.  

[sissy004]

Sorry to hear he wasn't paying attention to the plan, sounds like something my DH could do. Men just don't think sometimes.  At least he won't make the same mistake again, right?!?

[AnnaNotherThing]

Ah-ha hahhhh- thank you for that.

That made my morning. The expression of your last emoticon just says it all...

well, I guess that's one way of getting everyone on the same page.  He'll know for next time, right?