Originally Posted by MrsBone
Sam, are you gonna have anymore? I'd love to have more, but DH is so done. We've agreed to not talk about it for a few years though.
oh, gosh, i don't know. part of me wants more, but not sure if that's just because the thought of having no more is too hard to imagine. to think i'll never be pregnant again or have another baby makes me sad (i'm guessing this is normal and that a lot of women feel this way).
my dh is also done. his reason is mostly a financial one, however. i'm thinking if we were in a better place financially, he'd be open to it. he's agreed to have a vasectomy (eventually), but i'm reluctant to do anything so permanent just yet. if we do have another we probably won't wait as long (there are four years between dd and ds). we'll see. never say never.
it's funny. dd was an easy baby and ds is even easier. how can we be so lucky?