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it's like my own personal personal fight club over here!

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anybody els starting fights, or wanting to start fights with anyone and everyone? Cuss.gif

 

ya know off the top of my head, maybe, for example the B*tch who stole my spot at the gas station, or the lady at the eye store who has taken 2 DAYS to get the new stock out so i can buy new sunglasses, or my boss, or that lady at the pool who didnt believe my small child was 3 years old and didnt need a swim diaper...and argued with me about it.   .....or ya know...anyone like that? whistling.gif

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Uh YEAH, or the B*itchy fat lady that lives around the corner who says "You're having ANOTHER baby...weeellllllll, aren't you just a baby making machine (sighing and roller her eyes the whole time)".16 People are just lucky I'm so self-controlled LOL

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LOL, I can so relate.  I'm fine until something sets me off, then I get all snippy.  I asked my husband if I was like this last time because I don't remember being like this and he said no. 

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The people who can't drive but insist on getting in front of me wherever I go...my mother who reinterprets everything I say into something it's not...my husband who can't figure out how to read appointment times off the calendar...my midwife who insists on back-calculating how far I am along based on some arbitrary due date she's come up with rather than my LMP (ARG!!!!)  I'm having a hard time letting go of things that have pissed me off and it's really pissing me off (HAHAHA) because I'm usually pretty easy going and value having a positive outlook.  I hope this is a phase that passes quickly!!!

 

LOL, thanks for letting me vent!

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Kind of.  I find myself being way less tolerant of BS and being more assertive than normal.  Not bitchy, just not letting certain things slide or roll off my back.  I think it's a good thing because I can be such a softy with others that I'm pretty passive...and I don't really like that about me.  Speaking my peace feels good ;)

 

Sometimes, I find myself being way over sensitive with DH though and that does upset him...like if I feel like I haven't been getting enough affection, I get a bit um, childish...mopey and seeking that attention in a stupid way instead of just going after it.  I swear, sometimes, I'm dealing with unresolved childhood issues.  I read in a book not too long ago, that unresolved issues often come up in pregnancy for us to work through and it can feel like we're reverting to a somewhat infantile emotional state.  I feel like I'm experiencing that in regards to father figure/abandonment issues :/  One morning I woke up sweating because I had been violently crying in my dream because of my Dad rejecting me...kind of eye opening because I've been "over it" for 10 years....or so I thought.  I'm rambling off topic now.

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