Sallyrae, I hope you heard the heartbeat. My dr. couldn't find any heartbeat, and upon external exam appeared to be a bit surprised to not "feel" anything (my impression of the expression on her face). So she decided to do an internal exam and said my bits are indeed enlarged, but that she wanted an ultrasound to see what's going on. Thank heavens I didn't have to twist her arm into it or wait until next month, I don't think I could've stayed sane for another 4 weeks waiting. As is, I wait until Friday. Nervously. Hopeful.
Feeling better that I'm not the only one "still waiting," I was starting to think I was the only one who didn't get an early u/s to see life. But I still don't wish this agonizing wait on any of you, it stinks. Hopefully all is well for everyone and we all get to hear good news in the next few weeks. :-D